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Whether you’re a seasoned dater or you’re a teenager who is starting to date, there are some important things you should never do to attract a man. Perhaps you are the most intelligent and beautiful girl he will ever fall for or he will even feel lucky to have a date with you, but you might never know if you do the most to draw his attention. Check out a few worst ways to attract a guy.
1. Being rude
Don’t replicate anybody’s behavior to look better in his eyes. If you are polite and mannerly person, don’t change it. You don’t need to be rude, if you really don’t want to do it. Don’t let this local society “spoil” yourself. If everybody around you lets themselves to treat each other in an uncultured way, don’t become the same only for impressing some person.
2. Being clingy
I understand when you’ve fallen in love you don’t need other people around, because you want to be with your significant other. But this is not good. Appreciate the role of your family and friends in your life! Remember, what they have done for you and don’t shut them out from your life only because of one man. They may feel unwanted and it’s really offensive.
3. False interest
Showing the false interest is also a bad way to impress a guy. You don’t need to share all his hobbies to make yourself better for him. Once I had done this, and you know it was really stupid. I told him that I liked playing sports, though I had done it many years ago. Also you can be caught with your lies, for example, when he will ask you about your favorite team.
4. Being an inferior
Even if you really love your loud guy, don’t be shy of your own intelligence and don’t become more closed then you are. Don’t let yourself put down your feelings and change some of your treats. He needs to be accustomed to you and realize how beautiful you are. You have already gone through a lot of life things and this is the way that you have chosen. Sure, you will change your opinion sometime and maybe you will become someone else then, but you don’t need to do it only for impressing your guy. Be yourself!
5. Pretending
Don’t lose yourself! Don’t hide your features only for impressing somebody. This is your life and you have the freedom of being yourself. Ok, you can get that nice guy and now he likes you. But, are you sure that he likes exactly YOU? Sure, no, because he doesn’t know YOU! Let him know who you really are. Maybe he will leave you, but you must know he will do it anyway, because nobody can always lie. Don’t lie him and, please, don’t lie to yourself. You can be happy without any false stuff, you just need to show everybody who you are.
6. Using bad language
A lot of people all around the world use different words to express their feelings, perceptions and emotions. Most of them use special words that they think don’t have alternatives. And you definitely understand that I mean cursing. We all know how these “bad” words sound in our languages, so we should avoid them. This is not cool to hear cursing from women. You don’t need to do it only to show a guy that you are super cool, because you say some rude words to somebody.
7. Dressing like you are at the beach
Everybody knows that girls in mini skirts always get all attention everywhere. Well, I think it’s not so bad to wear a mini skirt, but sometimes girls wear too skimpy dresses and they get a bad reputation. Everybody will pay attention to you, but you will not impress guys in a good way. They will likely think that you are easy accessible. And this will not help you to meet the man of your dreams or the best boyfriend (or husband!) ever. Don’t overrate the meaning of your beautiful body in your future relationship. And don’t let anybody see your underwear or the lack of it. You will be sorry about it later.
Remember, you don’t need to become somebody else only to impress a guy. Love is a really great thing and we all deserve to have it, whoever you are. What are your ways to attract guys?
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